How to Impress Asian Women
From the online chatting stage to meeting Asian women in real life, here’s a guide for you to impress them.
More than ever, it’s easier to date women from across the seas. There are many free dating sites in Asia without payment that let you do that. Dating sites are now the most convenient means of finding a potential life partner.
When your heart is set to finding such a person among Asian women, chatting with them online isn’t enough. You must also learn how to woo them in the way they will like, which of course, you need to know just what makes Asian ladies tick.
Asia is such a huge continent consisting of many countries, each distinct on its own. All Asian countries have their own sets of cultures and traditions, but although Chinese, Thai, and Filipina women are very much different, their similarities somehow lie in their dating perspective and approach.
Just like any interracial relationships, you need to go beyond just stereotypes, preconceived notions, and petty online chat. There are just plenty of online or real-life ways to leave a great impression to Asian girls in specific and general:
Translate your English name
Specifically, this is only applicable when you’re dating Chinese women. An estimated less than one percent of China’s population speak English. Before you come up with topics to impress a girl on chat, especially when she’s from China, make sure you know your name in Chinese characters and introduce yourself to her with that! It’s not really necessary, but it’s better making the effort when you really aim to impress her.
In addition to that, while you can always meet Chinese women who may be adequately proficient in English, learning even the simplest words and phrases in her language will be something she’ll greatly appreciate. To her, it means that you’re honoring her origin, which is what you’re really doing.
Really, learn some common phrases in her language
Set yourself apart from other white men who just talk English. Saying your compliments (or just about anything) in her language will impress her. It doesn’t hurt learning just simple words and phrases in her language.
If anything, it shows your effort, and that is something she cannot help but appreciate. If you’re looking for which words to impress a girl, start with compliments.
Learn about her dating culture and norm
Asians tend to be conservative,so normally, they shy away from expressing affection to their partners in the public. If you’re finally meeting her, woo her in the Asian way. A peck in the cheek or a little holding of hands will do.
No matter how emotionally expressive you are, save your attempts on publicly displaying your affection for when you’ve already been to several dates or out of the public eye.
Doing otherwise — that is to display outright intimacy in the public — may end up with you offending her. It’s rare to even find Asian men and women couples kissing in public, unlike in the West. So, if you really want to impress your girl, restrain yourself when showing outward affection.
Learn about her culture, in general
Aside from learning tidbits of her language, make an effort to learn generally about her culture as well. Asian countries are very different from each other. Say you’re dating a Thai girl — Thai people are known for their smile and gentleness. Dating one, you need to show more of your courteous side. It may be easier said than done for it’s easy to forget being mindful about what you speak and how you act. But do come up as a nice guy. A Thai woman is very particular about a man’s attitude.
On the other hand, when you’re dating Chinese women and are finally visiting her at home, you need to remove your shoes before entering or else you’ll risk yourself not going to be entertained with her elderly family members. For a Chinese woman, her parents’ say has a big impact on her dating life, which is why you need to avoid making some mistakes in front of her family.
These are just a few of the cultures in specific Asian countries. There are more for you to learn yet. Every Asian woman is different but it doesn’t hurt learning about your date in the context of her cultures and traditions.
Visit her hometown
Have you been chatting with her for some time now? If so, isn’t it about time you take things further? Especially when you can already say for certain that the two of you really connect even if just virtually.
Fly to her hometown! Some dating sites have their own ways in connecting men and women from all around the world. You can even join singles vacation tours with help from a matchmaking agency. Doing this can impress a woman by showing her just how interested you are to meet her in real life.
Respect her beliefs, values, and ways
Asians are generally family-oriented. While the Westerners value independence, Asian people value their families way more. They make efforts to ensure their families stay intact. And this closeness doesn’t just apply to immediate family, but also the extended ones as well.
On the other hand, while modern Asian girls know how to have fun in the dating process, most women are serious when it comes to starting their own families. These women have marriage in mind, which is why dates may seem like a ritual of finding “the one”.
Aside from close family ties, you might adjust to practices that Westerners would find strange. For instance, you may also need to accept how strange the medicine Chinese women use or that gender norms are perceived differently in the country.
Here’s an example of roles of men and women in Asia, the men are still expected to foot the bill on dates. So better not ask her to split the bill with you. She might be willing to pay, but she may not be willing to go on another date with you.
Filipinas, in particular, also have their own ways. One unique tradition of these people is eating with their bare hands. They also have their share of exotic food.
Whatever these practices and beliefs may be, better adapt to them soon because that is one way of winning her over.
Impressing her is key to winning her heart
If you seriously want to impress your Asian date, try following these tips. But for better success in impressing Asian women, especially if they’re from the countries not mentioned, try researching country-specific cultures and traditions for you to take note!